STOP LOSING IN LOVE · WITH TILLY & JAMIE
You’re not bad at dating. You just stop being you when you like him.
Six private weeks with Tilly and Jamie to work out what you actually want, say it out loud, and hold a standard you’ve set yourself without folding the second it gets uncomfortable.
For women who have life handled everywhere else, and lose themselves the second they actually like someone.
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2 minutes · 4 spots · Enrolment closes Friday 11 December
- Private 1:1
- Both of us on every call
- WhatsApp between sessions
- 6 weeks
What you’ll be holding in six weeks
None of it depends on him doing anything.
A written list of what you actually want
In your own handwriting. Not “kind” and “emotionally available”, but what those look like as behaviour.
A rule with a number on it
How long someone gets before you decide, and what you do when they don’t.
A phone that isn’t running your mood
No more rereading, waiting, checking, or sending screenshots to six friends.
A decision you can stand behind
A clear read on what’s happening, and what you’re doing next, in weeks instead of months.
You don’t need to get better at dating. You need to stop abandoning yourself when you like someone.
The six weeks
Standards. Read. Trust.
- Week 1
Name The Pattern
The loop you keep repeating, said out loud before we go anywhere near a man.
- Week 2
Define Standards
What “kind” looks like on a Tuesday when he’s tired.
- Week 3
Said Versus Did
The test that gets most women their time back.
- Week 4
Stop Decoding
So every silence, delay and mixed signal stops being a second job.
- Week 5
Choose As-Is
The man in front of you, not the version of him you’ve built.
- Week 6
Hold The Line
When a standard gets crossed, you don’t fold just because you still like him.
- Bonus: Christmas Game Plan call
Why Jamie’s on every call
He’s been married. He’s had the long relationships and the end of one, so what you get from him isn’t theory off a podcast. It’s what men actually do, why they do it, and what it means when they don’t.
“Most of what you’d agonise over for three weeks has a very boring male answer.”
How it works
- 1
Apply
A few honest questions. Two minutes.
- 2
Private call with Tilly & Jamie
45 minutes. We’ll tell you in the first five whether you’re a fit, and if you’re not, we’ll say so.
- 3
Six weeks, one focus a week
Six private 60-minute calls with both of us, a WhatsApp group between calls (we reply within one business day), a short worksheet each week, and a review of your dating profile.
Women who’ve done it
Ended a ten-month situationship in week two. By week three she was reading a new man’s behaviour against her own written standards, without being prompted.
“I feel so much happier. I feel lighter.”
Had spent six months on a man who was never going to choose her properly. She stopped answering him. Two weeks later:
“It’s nice. It’s free.”
Names changed. Shared with permission.
Our guarantee
You’ve got seven days to love it or leave it. If you join and realise it’s not for you, tell us within seven days of paying and we’ll send every dollar back. No awkwardness.
And if you show up to all six calls, do the worksheets, and take the weekly actions, you’ll leave with your standards written as behaviours, a clear read on what’s happening, and at least one standard you’ve held in real life. If you don’t, we’ll add one private call to get it finished.
Four spots
We’re taking 4 women, because this is private and both of us are on every call. Enrolment closes Friday 11 December, or when the 4 spots are gone. Prices go up in January.
Questions, answered
Is my situation bad enough for this?+
The women who ask this are usually the furthest in. If you’ve normalised it long enough to wonder whether it counts, it counts.
Is the call a sales call?+
Yes. It’s a call about whether Stop Losing In Love is right for you. We’ll tell you in the first five minutes whether you’re a fit, and if you’re not, we’ll say so.
What if my situation is embarrassing, or different?+
You’ll have said it out loud in the first ten minutes, and it won’t be the worst we’ve heard.
Will this work if he’s the problem?+
We’re not going to fix him. We’ll get you a clear read on what he’s doing and a line you’ll actually hold. Then you decide.
You already know. Let’s act on it.
4 spots. Enrolment closes Friday 11 December, or when they’re gone.
Results vary. Every client’s situation is different, and what you get out of the programme depends on the work you put in.